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evil guy
good idea I mean
pot of greed
why did you guys break up ?
>>671461
sæкі
getting re involved when the emotions might lead to complicated things that get uncomfortable, it could be nice but could also be not the best n lead to just
pot of greed
>>671454
>t
#this (so much this)
evil guy
we broke up because of several factors. none of those factors are physical harm
>>671465>>671466
sæкі
not great emotions n time
booger (phone)!boymodewng
flip a coin to decide
pot of greed
>>671462
that is good to hear
i think if you wanna boink her again and you're in a position to like. not get fucked up about it (or fuck HER up about it) then u should do what ur heart tells u
anon
>>671462
Do you think you'd catch feelings or smthn? IDK I think you are prob fine as long as you can keep it at arms length after. Though also you know if it was a fairly cordial break up and all, then it seems completely fine to me.
>>671477>>671468
anti
>>671467
this usually stands up as good advice
sæкі
it can depend but in most cases when things have already ended for multiple reasons, pulling yourself back into things even a little can throw a wrench in your emotions after and pull u back into things
>>671475
anti
>>671472
i really really wanna stab a police officer snd its still a dumb idea
>>671478
pot of greed
honestly a very very salient point
pot of greed
>>671471
#this is true
when u make the decision to leave it's often better to leave it that way
sæкі
>>671473
so real, both parts of this
anon
>>671477
oh.... oh it's like that....
sæкі
this is
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hey you shouldnt
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why*
sæкі
please don't engage if like that then
pot of greed
>>671477
did she break up with you, or the reverse, or was it mutual
>>671487
sæкі
need to move on, not put yourself into even more of those feelings before pulling back again and maybe being
sæкі
pushed away by her again
anon
>>671487
Was it like a basic reason or like was it a bad relationship or just kinda like "ah I gotta focus on work, sorry" deal. Because if it was a fine relationship, idk you are probably fine. But don't get in expecting things to be some relationship, you know, keep things a little bit arms length.
>>671493
evil guy
>>671490
it was not a bad relationship. i wouldn't say i was a bad boyfriend but it was my first relationship so i have made a lot of first relationship mistakes. we lasted for 3 years, and she broke up with me bec she can't take it anymore. the waiting and the exhaustion she said
>>671495>>671504
anti
dont fuck yr ex im beinf so fr
pot of greed
>>671493
man that sounds like a complicated one
maybe meet up in public first if u still wanna and not for sex. go with zero intentions to fuck and see what the vibe is cause this seems like somethin more complicated than what internet strangers can help with (imo)
sæкі
like
anti
like text her no rn
sæкі
meetup and talk first and don't go straight to doing this you
anti
tell her explicitly u dont want to fuck trust me its betrer
>>671502
sæкі
shouldn't do this stuff to yourself
sæкі
even if still have feelings, this isn't gonna help with the big risk she will push you away or reject and make u feel hurt bc u still feel this way and let yourself do it
>>671506
pot of greed
>>671499
#this #this #this #this (totes mcgotes) #this
pot of greed
totes mcgotes
anon
>>671493
I'm not the one to talk to about relationships, but I have a suspicion she is just looking to fuck. And it might hurt if you are thinking there could be something more. You kinda if you do this should prob try to regulate any sort of feeling you got for her.
>>671505>>671510
evil guy
>>671501
my fight or flight response is actually so through the roof right now. if im being honest, I've already been in this situation with her before
>>671513
sæкі
take care of urself
sæкі
step back
sæкі
yeah, don't engage with it again please, its a cycle that's going to hurt and put you in this state again
evil guy
like maybe she's calling me bc she just wants to have sex and not actually fix us bec as far as i know, she has somebody ????? im not sure
>>671520
anon
>>671510
I think.... you should figure out if you can do this without feeling crappy about it or feeling "yearning". She definitely just wants to fuck, and hey that could be fun if you don't end up just feeling that you are missing out after.
sæкі
yeah
sæкі
I need to add tags to the girls night Yuri image
pot of greed
tagging is an art of zen
sæкі
hehe
sæкі
I edit tags n streamline the pics on booru
anon
>>671511
Have you been talking to other people since? And have you been in a few relationships before?
>>671522>>671524
sæкі
important context
sæкі
then please
sæкі
do not do this
anti
>>671524
i think you should let it rest and process things
pot of greed
LET US PUT IT TO DEMOCRACY
#poll should this evil guy fuck his ex gf / yes / no
sæкі
ahhh
anon
>>671524
And have you been in a relationship before or like how many relationships have you had?
>>671533
sæкі
please let it rest, that is really soon and going to hurt you
anti
if you go fuck her you're just inflaming the wound
evil guy
>>671530
i have not, she was my first girlfriend, and also she took my virginity haha
>>671534
anon
>>671533
Oh yeah no, you should prob not do this. I do hate to put it like this, but this is a really really tricky situation to be in for someone that hasn't been in many relationships. I suggest trying to shop around and find people. Because as it is, this will likely just hurt you.
>>671536>>671537
anti
these things, esp a first breakup, need time to heal and be pondered
evil guy
>>671534
ive thought about it but i just think its unfair if i do find other people bec if im being honest im still stuck with her a little bit
>>671542>>671544
anti
you're gonna feel way different abt all this in another 3 months
>>671543
sæкі
ming from people who have been through many things like this
pot of greed
>>671524
>3 months
sweetheart please stay away from that girl don't cause urself the heartbreak
sæкі
this is coming*
anon
>>671537
Yeah, and that makes sense. You know, it was your first *real* relationship. But you gotta move on and find someone good for you. There are alot of people out there and it is fair for YOU to look for someone that you can really be with.
anti
>>671537
these things take time to heal over
sæкі
you need the time to take space for yourself or youre gonna get stuck in this cycle of feelings for much longer and not let yourself grow to find out what you actually want now that things have changed and you're not together
evil guy
okay so uhm
evil guy
a little context i guess
evil guy
so when we broke up, that was in April, i did my best to do the no contact rule, and id say i was pretty good at it. it was hard, for sure, but i was able to like push through ut
anon
Yeah just from what I can tell, it just seems like you are inexperienced. I think if you are up to it, you should speak with her. But the flipside is like you are very sort of eh young and all that, or rather this is your first relationship and it ended. You should definitely NOT fuck her. You should find other people to meet, hook up with, etc.
anti
brother if i'd broken up w my gf in april i'd still be crying
>>671553
sæкі
this is like relapsing in this situation imo
sæкі
and yeah same
evil guy
>>671550
yeah i still cry from time to time, but you know it's not like it's affecting my work or my social life as much as it did when it was really fresh
>>671555
sæкі
I'd be a mess and having sex again would not help even if it felt like it would for a moment
anti
it sounds cliche but the key thing here really is time
evil guy
so yea from april to june i did my best to not text or stalk or even look at her pictures
>>671563
sæкі
you will
sæкі
but
sæкі
doing this will make you unable to get better, for longer
sæкі
you can start talking again if you're comfortable but going straight from that to sex is not good
evil guy
i just went cold turkey if that's the right term lol
anon
>>671557
I am going to put this a little bit... er... cruelly. But it's your first relationship. Alot of the emotions you *think* you have for her are more the result of it being your first relationship and having these new feelings. So even if you are like still into her, you still should be finding other people to meet and interact with and fuck an all that.
>>671564>>671566>>671567
pot of greed
first one's for practice
all the rest after are for real
>>671569
anti
>>671563
#this
yr first relationship can be intoxicating
sæкі
>>671566
most people would generally agree and you'll likely come to learn in time, you just need to give yourself that
evil guy
>>671565
but i made it work for 3 years
anon
>>671566
I know, from personal experience.
sæкі
me as well
anti
ny first proper relationship was half a year and afterwards i was fuckin broken
>>671579
sæкі
::sadd
anon
I've been on both sides of the fence, first relationship with someone where I felt "she was so good :(" and being someone else's first relationship.
anti
but w time and critical thought i became better at relationships and I've found new loves since
sæкі
>>671573
same
went through all of it myself right after I became disabled and home bound n then yk imagine guh
#hug
evil guy
hello pot
sæкі
feel this
evil guy
but what if... i wanna do it bec i wanna have sex
>>671587
sæкі
this is clearly gonna become more than that
anti
not worth the emotional hurt
anon
>>671584
Very rudely, this is like walking through a minefield to get some ice cream. Your hand should suffice until you find someone ELSE to have sex with before you think about going to your ex
>>671595
sæкі
and also
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you're harming yourself by not doing it w someone else if that's the case
evil guy
i really appreciate you guys being brutally honest
>>671591
pot of greed
worms are real for worms
sæкі
and urself
pot of greed
to be human is difficult sometimes
>>671597
anti
wih time I've come to see relationships as things that dont have to last forever
>>671600
sæкі
its difficult but the answers can be pretty cut and dry, but just hard to come to terms with and resist the urges holding back from
>>671601
anti
>>671598
to me, they have their time to be and their time to end
anon
You should definitely shop around the market right now though, because it's getting to be that time for you and the longer you wait to find other people, the more it's going to weigh down.
evil guy
i know i shouldn't, and id say every cell inm y body says i shouldn't
sæкі
also, yeah you should meet new people and try it w others I'd say before thinking or feeling this is the only thing you are comfortable with or will make you happy or content
anti
and sometimes its just the time for sonething to end
>>671608
evil guy
but i miss the feeling of her
>>671612
pot of greed
>>671606
all things have to end eventually
evil guy
sorry if i sound cringe rn
>>671613
anti
i love my wife very dearly but one day there might be a time where we shouldn't be together anymore, and thats okay
>>671614
anon
>>671607
After my first relationship I fell into a DEEP depression, it's hard on you. But it gets harder if you don't move on. And it's something you kinda have to learn.
pot of greed
>>671609
ur not cringe, i'm p sure everyone here knows EXACTLY the feelin ur talkin about hehe
pot of greed
>>671610
gotta be ok with the ending or else ur always gonna be living in fear of it
>>671617
sæкі
brb baffroom
evil guy
what if, hypothetically, i have moved on, and im just gonna go through with this bec i just wanna have sex. again hypothetically
>>671619>>671620
anti
loss and endings always hurt but you gotta power through or it'll never get better
anon
>>671616
If you are thinking "hypothetically I move on but come back to her" then you haven't really moved on at any point...
>>671622>>671621
pot of greed
>>671616
i think hypothetically if u really were chill and it had been a while, there wouldn't be a prob having sex with someone again
but i don't think that's this particular situation from what you've described
>yearning for her again
>still sad about the breakup
>she broke up w/you, she got back in contact w/you
etc
anon
I just think alright, this isn't a thought process you should hold onto, but if you DO care about this person, then you also kinda owe it to them to also move on yourself instead of staying stuck.
>>671625
anti
i missed the touch of my fucked up abusive gf very deeply for months after we broke up, its very normal to get stuck in these things
evil guy
man, why does it have to be this way
>>671628
anon
I don't know, it hurts though. But like I said, if this is something you care about, then the best thing you can do is completely put it to a close and move on. Then potentially one day who knows. But that shouldn't be your intent.
anti
not to be all poetic and shit but the pain gives the joy meaning
>>671631
anti
with time you'll move on and the sadness will fade, and you can find joy in new things and new people
pot of greed
can't have darkness without the light etc
evil guy
i wish she didn't contact me last week so i wouldn't have this problem
anon
If you have the capacity, you know, be cordial. Just do whatever you think you have the capacity and don't overestimate your ability to you know not give into it.
anti
yeah if you feel up to it I'd just tell her not to contact you again
>>671638>>671639
I Love Fat Women
Two things.
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gay furry porn artists sigma x is uploading the best bisexual comic imaginable holy shit
anon
>>671635
I don't think the anon has to do something that severe. I think that you can maintain contact but it's a question of if the anon has the capacity to call it off find other people and all that
>>671642
evil guy
>>671635
this is such a hard thing to do. like a level 10 task or something
I Love Fat Women
two i buily the unity temple in lego form
pot of greed
98% Of People Can't Resist This One Thing. Are You One Of Them?
evil guy
>>671638
i think i have the capacity to look and get to know other people, i just think it's unfair to be with a girl right now while i still have SOME feelings for my ex
>>671655>>671653
sæкі
got sum iced tea n ice
anon
>>671643
I had a lego frank lloyd wright uh fallingwater model that I really like
>>671651
sæкі
I have a
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picture of me on like a
I Love Fat Women
>>671646
BASED TWINKANON
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world record Lego thing my church did
anti
>>671642
you cant let that hold you back.
sæкі
I'll have to find it
anon
>>671642
Find someone that you can be passionate about. And I understand that feeling, because if you aren't over your last relationship, getting into a new one... oh boy. I have also been on the other end of that shit lol and it SUCKS. But you have to develop your ability to handle this kinda stuff. Are you regularly going out with friends?
sæкі
it was a model town of like biblical city
anti
i still love every lover i ever had, but i move on
>>671660
sæкі
helped with at summer camp or smth like that
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cuddle
evil guy
>>671657
sorry if this is gonna sound stupid but how can you say you've moved on if you still love em
>>671662
sæкі
I really wanna get the Sakura tree or uhhh what's it called, the trees ppl cut for '''zen''' from japan lego model
>>671665
anti
>>671660
its less so active love and more so
anti
i retain a fondness for the time i spent w them and rhe connection i had with them
sæкі
I'll send pics if there's ones of both but
sæкі
I mainly might get Gundam cus cheaper and would be fun to get into
>>671672
anti
fentmom can you sing a dead kennedys song for me
sæкі
had made some as mid teen but been long time
ivory (evil)
anywya
sæкі
>>671673
awe, think hab seen before
ur not evil tho just
anti
i was evil anti yesterday and i hated my bitch wife
>>671686
anon
>>671673
Are you regularly going out with friends and stuff right now?
>>671685
sæкі
in feels
sæкі
or
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ur evil in the way that all these quizzes keep calling Twink evil
ivory (evil)
>>671681
i try to set things up with them and also i meet up with random people online lol
>>671688
fentphone
>>671667
not sure what I’m gonna sing now but lasts time I was there I sung don’t stop the beat by jr sr with my brother and I also spun round on the stripper pole there and a bunch of spanish aunts went “wooo”
>>671696
anon
>>671685
Now is also a good time to pick up new hobbies and such. You know, if there is a hobby you were ever interested in, for me I started martial arts after going through my first relationship and it was a lifesaver.
>>671692
anti
>>671686
bizarro world anti owns a suburban home and mows the lawn every wednesday
sæкі
I...
sæкі
I wanna be comfy enough that I could do karaoke with people eventually
>>671695
ivory (evil)
>>671688
yea yea i think uhm... im gonna buy an electric guitar
>>671700
sæкі
I hate my voice too much rn
anon
>>671691
I'd let you do karaoke with me, you wouldn't have to be nervous because my voice SUCKS
>>671697
anti
>>671693
i sung Do They Owe Us A Living
anon
>>671692
Coolio, you know, find some lessons to go to, find other people in the area to hang out with and jam with. It's a good time to develop yourself, rest on relationships that aren't *that* intense.
anti
.play crass do they owe us a living
rose!!UTCPvC12Ac
thinking about trying to learn toki pona
>>671708
sæкі
weba
sæкі
oooo
sæкі
#ai what's toki pona

toki pona is a minimalist conlang (constructed language) created by sonja lang in 2001. it's got around 120-137 words and is designed for simplicity, clarity, and positive thinking. grammar is super straightforward—no complicated verb conjugations or gendered nouns. you can learn basics in a few hours. popular in online communities for its philosophy of reducing communication to essentials. some people joke it's the "python of languages." also has a writing system called sitelen pona where words are represented by simplified symbols. what's toki pona
anti
the only toki speaker i ever met irl sucked so hard
pot of greed
>>671703
it's fun but still kinda hard
the grammar is whacky but it's a lovely little language
>>671717
ivory (evil)
thank you guys so much
>>671714
sæкі
<3
ivory (evil)
tomorrow is when we're gonna meet up. i guess if we do meet up, ill tell her exactly what i feel
>>671719>>671721
sæкі
ty for reaching out to ppl before deciding
I Love Fat Women
EBERYBODYYY
pot of greed
>>671709
#hug good lukc evil ivory... i know u will be ok in time
I Love Fat Women
OHHHHH
anti
i think toki pona is a p cool language though
rose!!UTCPvC12Ac
>>671708
i know a few ppl who speak it irl so i wanna get into it
>>671720
pot of greed
ooh if you have irl people to speak it with them 10000% learn it and ask em for help
they'll go GAGA for it
>>671723
anon
>>671711
Gotta stay strong if you do. Really really hard task just so you know.
sæкі
>>671717
ouuu, if u know if is an gud and start learning, maybe interested in too if it is and would be fun to learn w peeps :>
ivory (evil)
>>671718
yes i know haha but im not
ivory (evil)
im not really comfy sharing it yet
anti
im interested in toki pona but i associate it way too hard w someone i hate deeply to actually learn it
>>671727
ivory (evil)
the only reason why i can confess here is bec idk u people haha
>>671729
sæкі
makes me think of my over use of Cyrillic to take all my notes, etc
pot of greed
>>671726
stranger 2 stranger communication
the power of anonymity
>>671733
sæкі
and cyphers and encoding
anon
Alright, I probably have to go.
>>671734
rose!!UTCPvC12Ac
yeah its the boy i have a crush on n his bf so itd be cute to speak it with them
sæкі
>>671731
ww, i hope u have a gud time n can go out n do stuff in a lil, will be excited to hear Abt :3
wish could do stuff like it ;w;
anti
jeg taler dansk ig
anti
i need to learn a not germanic language
sæкі
aw
fentphone
>>671693
let’s do that when I come visit u omg also that and the lesbian mosh pit
>>671747
anti
im thinking abt navajo ngl itd be p cool
>>671746
I Love Fat Women
who is dj ing
sæкі
I took Spanish, German and such classes in high school and was teaching myself Ukrainian and Russian over the years
derrick_phone(Luzia)
>>671744
DID SOMEONE MENTION CRASS
I Love Fat Women
>>671744
Anti twink based as always
derrick_phone(Luzia)
RAHHHH I LOVE CRUSTPUNK RAHHHHHH
sæкі
OMG heya!!!
anti
>>671746
im p sure its an open language
anti
crass werent even crusties
anti
all the crusties just took it from them
derrick_phone(Luzia)
i call em crust bc idc
>>671760
anti
crust is anarcho punk for people who are homeless
ivory (evil)
guys what do you think about chiikawa
anti
anarcho punk (british) is punk for people interested in more than beer
sæкі
how are u luz?
anti
but crass are absolutely not crust
derrick_phone(Luzia)
im doing good
sæкі
awwww
sæкі
things been going a lil better than yday?
derrick_phone(Luzia)
im enjoying knowing someone that actually listens to punk that isnt pop punk
>>671769
sæкі
I listen to like
sæкі
when I listen to punk its not pop punk
derrick_phone(Luzia)
>>671768
i like electro hippies
anti
>>671768
i forgive them for this though
sæкі
also don't rly enjoy pop pop but some stuff that has hyperpop traits
derrick_phone(Luzia)
theyre good
anti
i dont forgive them for the flaccid pacifism
anti
.play securicor crass
sæкі
and
anti
.play sheep farming in the falklands crass
sæкі
wanna sit in a call sometime w worms and listen to music
derrick_phone(Luzia)
anti what are your thoughts on pop punk
>>671784
I Love Fat Women
SHEEP FARMING?!
I Love Fat Women
I FUCKING LOVE SHEEPS
anti
>>671781
its fine if thats your thing ig
I Love Fat Women
also that symbol...
sæкі
Shepard esses worm <3
anti
but pop punk is not the same as punk its a different thing all together
>>671793>>671790
sæкі
god autocorrect
I Love Fat Women
hey anti. what do those symbols mean
>>671791
derrick_phone(Luzia)
>>671787
i agree heavy
anti
they intentionally made it resemble as many fash symbols as possible to be annoying
sæкі
it often just takes the aesthetics and can embody the "um can we take the politics out of punk" energy
>>671798
ivory (evil)
okay i will be rereading homestuck now guys thanks again ^^ i very much love you all please don't forget me
>>671796
pot of greed
>>671795
we saved another person from having sex let's GOO
derrick_phone(Luzia)
hello ivory and pot of greed
>>671801
I Love Fat Women
pop punk can be good. it just that MGK sucks cock
booger (phone)!boymodewng
j-o-b
>>671807
anti
.play dirt deaf dumb & male
sæкі
bazed
sæкі
I wanna get the
sæкі
2077 tarot card deck, made by Etsy sellersfrom the in game art designs
anti
i just do not like pop punk
I Love Fat Women
YEAHHHHHHH
I Love Fat Women
YEAHHHHHHH
derrick_phone(Luzia)
>>671816
im so good at this
pot of greed
>>671819
i agree you're funnier than the ai is... adding zeroes is not comedy....
booger (phone)!boymodewng
can you pet me and tell me how funny i am
>>671826>>671836
anti
1
anti
what i just queued is a tape that CRASS faked that made national news
pot of greed
>>671823
#pet #pat you make me giggle and guffaw and my belly rumbles like thunder at your jokes booger
>>671828>>671830
derrick_phone(Luzia)
i like touching people
>>671841
anti
1
I Love Fat Women
.play nacny reagan sun city girls
derrick_phone(Luzia)
i get to touch a rly pretty girl IN THREE DAYS!!!!!
sæкі
heccin
anti
i will be queueing mass amounts of anarcho punk bc luz can appreciate it
booger (phone)!boymodewng
no one saw anything.
>>671840
pot of greed
bogger remains strong and powerful and not in need of hugs and affection
derrick_phone(Luzia)
>>671838
i genuinely didnt
sæкі
andletting cuties bite me or biting them
>>671846
anti
.play reagan youth new aryans
anti
.play subhumans i dont wanna die
sæкі
I have to turn off video player cus I'm lagging several seconds before my text comes up
sæкі
luv gnawing and biting sm and stimming this way
anti
.play zounds wolves
sæкі
I wanna get a
sæкі
capture card so I can plug it into my quest and run a giant heccin virtual monitor for any device
anti
.play conflict c.r.a.s.s
sæкі
and run multi monitor XR desktop w virtual desktop or the Linux options
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