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nonners
#ai do accountants just multiply really big numbers in their head?

nah, accountants mostly use software for actual calculations. their main job is recording transactions, preparing financial statements, and ensuring everything complies with tax laws. mental math isn’t the focus—accuracy and documentation are.
do accountants just multiply really big numbers in their head?
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206204
ooof that sounds like it sucks. maybe you can rig a curtain or something to have some private space.
>>206209
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206208
there's another option here in this city but i'm not sure if it convinces me
>>206210
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206209
is there dorms for santiago uni? or government aid to study?
>>206211
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206210
yeah but there are a lot of chances i'm not gonna be able to apply because i technically do have family here. i can still give it a try at the end of the year but i don't think have many chances. like i'd have to explain a lot of things......
>>206213
anon
>>206179
he needs chatgtp to talk about these things with
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206211
you should do it and if you need advice feel free 2 reach out to me. really dont give up on the idea. and also one thing u shuold do that 99% of students dont do is call the admissions office directly they can give you a ton of advice or if you explain yoru situation they might be able to make something happen. not guaranteed but reaching out to admissions is something that a lot of students never conider because they are still teenagers and dont really have that adult 'let me talk to people direclty' mentality yet.
>>206226
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
also Santiago is expensiveeeeee :sob:
>>206219
shrimp
its SSNOWING
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
snowing shrimp
shrimp
raining shrimp and crabs
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
bringing buckets to hve a lot of shrimps so shrimp is not alone
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206214
you are saying that to me, an american. my concept of money is completely different lol.
>>206226
anon
snow shrimp 🦐
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206221
its gray here but not raining. guess we are far enough away to not get hit by the rain.
shrimp
its snowingggg tho
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206213
i'll keep that advice in mind honestly. cus honestly if i make it to study linguistics i feel like it'd make me bury happy. either that or music. but both options are in Santiago. its either that or studying something just out of compromise and while i think it's not a bad option at all (at the end of the day its a bless anyways), i think it could be way better if i can spend that time and energy on something i really wanna do
>>206219
true but i mean the point is that i'd be struggling with cash anyways
>>206235
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206227
autistic BEAST

lmao love that
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206230
you are DIAMOND in overwatch you are a PRO GAMER
shrimp
I AM!!!!!
shrimp
i havent played a single ranked game since my placements lol
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206226
there are TONS Of opportunities for linguistics jobs and anthro in general in chile and peru because there is so much recovery efforst on lost languages and so many active archaelogical sights that need regular maintance or excavation its a very good country to do anthro in. americas anthro is kind of big but it involves a lot of traveling internationally
>>206238
anon
huh?!
SadChan🍉🍉
I have learned a lot of about peruvian and chilean anthropologists in my studies this year
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206235
oh i know about that and if i get a degree and allat i'd definitely would like to study indigenous languages. last time i checked about this i found a lot of interesting info of extincted languages like yagan and i spent days reading stuff. it's really awesome :sob:
>>206240
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206238
you should REALLY try to get into an anthro degree in santiago that sounds like it would be a good fit for u!!!!!!
SadChan🍉🍉
AAAA!!!
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
yeah in 2023 i was getting a degree in education because i was specializing in literature and linguistics but i had to quit because i realized i suck at teaching and that's what mattered the most !! but i still keep all the linguistics pdfs and stuff because i really had a lot of fun with that and sometimes i check papers and investigations out of mere curiosity. it makes me happy, kinda
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
i was gonna be a language teacher !!
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
but i gave up on it for that reason
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
also boymoding while being a teacher is AWFUL i thought it was gonna be ok but it was really stressful
>>206256
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
everytime i went to a classroom i ended up shaking ;_;
>>206256
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
.play frío frío niños del cerro
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
.skip (video skipped)
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
what
anon
wow :< I know a teacher who is trans
>>206253
nonners
youtube commenter bots are getting outta hand
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206250
i think it already requires a lot of bravery to be a teacher but being trans and a teacher is something i just can't do. i even tried but even if kids are nice to you the comments they give can be so awkward
>>206255
anon
it really does
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206253
even if they come from a place of love and curiosity it's just awkward and made me lose interest, i guess
>>206259
anon
poor nadie
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206256
if i ever get enough money for FFS i might stop doing it
>>206260
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206258
i bet u could pass if u just girlmodedd have you tried just going out as a girl???
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
no
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
the idea makes me anxious
SadChan🍉🍉
its going to sound really funny I get that 100%
SadChan🍉🍉
the way I stopped girlmoding is so wierd...
SadChan🍉🍉
so I am in the military reserve right?
SadChan🍉🍉
and there is uniformt standard, so I went to my CO and Chief and was like look i am transitioning and if I cant grow my hair out I will just leave and they basically said okay but you have to conform fully to the female standard and we will do some paperwork to sign that shows you have permission from us so I haad to like, actually up my female presentation by 10x because suddenly like I HAD too
>>206274
anon
based boyremover nation
SadChan🍉🍉
i get boyremoved by the navy lmao
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
that's so epic
anon
that must be scary though that’s epic you did it
SadChan🍉🍉
there are a lot of trans people who really really hate me for being like a nato supporter / veteran and stuff it makes me sad... they dont really understand the military I think and I think its something that should exist. there are lots of problems with out country but its the politicians who are at faultt tbh.
SadChan🍉🍉
this song is cool
anon
hmmm but politicians only get power from votes and interest groups and structure of government
SadChan🍉🍉
learning to do my hair in a bun was really tough lolll
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
i don't wanna stop boymoding honestly because i don't think i'd look good as a girl. at least as a boy i'm like, presentable to some extent
>>206278>>206280
anon
I bet!
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206276
tbh I prefer being really ugly as a girl than somewhat attractive as a guy. i do have a lot of insecurity and self hatred about being ugly and stuff though, even though i think i pass a lot. i think i actually started passing less lately but that might just be dysphoria its hard to tell through the mental illness haze
>>206279
anon
>>206276
yeah I’d feel mean being ugly. I look autistic and weird as a guy but not frightening. but you really want to be a girl nadie I think people would like seeing your passion, or some would
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206281
i'd be very ugly as a girl tho
and as a guy i already look strange, honestly. i've been told so
its not even about the hrt, its just my face and bones that make me look weird
>>206283
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206282
okay so lets just say this is true what do u have to lose looking like a strange man v a strange woman? xD
>>206284
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206283
that there's no actual discrimination against strange men but there is against trans women
SadChan🍉🍉
yea but if you looks strange as a man that doesnt mean u wont pass. that just means you will look strange. it wont be any different than just being a strange looking woman...
>>206287
anon
mmm
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206287
yea cause u boymode. like how tf are you supposed to pass presenting male all the time??
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
no because i've girlmoded irl for people to get some feedback cus i know pictures are useless to get actual feedback and i've been told i don't pass
SadChan🍉🍉
by peope who knew you pretransition?
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
no by people who knew me after like 2 years of hrt
SadChan🍉🍉
but you presented to them as a man right?
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
no
SadChan🍉🍉
oh so like you me them for the first time and they were like "omg ur a tranny?"
>>206297
anon
that was good you tested it at least somewhat
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206294
they knew me as a trans girl from the beginning yeah
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
just like a boymoder
SadChan🍉🍉
boymoding is presenting as a man tho, even if people know ur trans. idk. i have friends who knew before and I CANNOT pass to them like even in a dress with makeup they still trip over themselves to gender me correctly and its frustrating but then at the same night I got kind of hit on by a guy at the arcade so... like its a very well known phenomenon that people who see you as a guy/girl have a very hard time rewritting gender perceptions.

like gender is very much a "FIRST IMPRESSIONS" kind of thing. if people are good at using ur pronouns they are either the 1% who actually see trans people as having changed sex or just good at respecting your feelings and boundaries. but if you meet new people they will just see you as the new gender. thats been my experience to a T.
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
that has nothing to do with anything tho, they know i'm trans and i've been on hrt for years and i girlmoded irl asking for some feedback and they reached the conclusion that while i'm "not necessarily ugly nor honnish" i don't pass
SadChan🍉🍉
well, im not trying to be annoying or pushy sry
SadChan🍉🍉
passing does take effort tho like voice training, getting better at fashion and clothing and stuff. like you do have to kind of fail at it for awhile to get good at "being the imposter"
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
i'm not bad at clothing from what i've been told, it's just that i'm not girl-looking
i look like a cute tranny, basically. but a tranny at the end of the day
SadChan🍉🍉
have you tried just going to a store youve never been too dressed up and see how u get gendered?
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
why would i do that
SadChan🍉🍉
bceause thats really the only way to get honest feedback imo, how strangers treat u
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
are you saying they weren't being honest when they told me i don't pass
SadChan🍉🍉
yea pretty much, what I mean is like when people know you it colors their perception a lot.
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
why not
anon
also to them it might be different the point of view- they’re thinking ‘tranny’ strangers are thinking ‘man/woman’ usually- but that doesn’t mean you are wrong
>>206311
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206310
so ur saying that when they said i look trans they actually meant i look like a guy?
anon
nah they are thinking trans and it colored what they saw, but I mean you could but it doesn’t mean you do
SadChan🍉🍉
One thing I noticed is like trans people tell me im pretty a lot but its not really true. by cis woman standards im like a 2 or 3/10 but trans women standards are really different from socities. the fact that i can pass at all makes people always be like OH UR SO PRETTY even though I look like a grugg woman and have horrible preportions
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
i don't get it, if the fact you pass make people say you're pretty (considering you see yourself as "a 2 or 3/10"), why me girlmoding in a random store would make me receive "actual honest feedback"?
>>206316
anon
people with high standards are going to be like that, like if you’re the one African person in Scandinavia vs back in Africa you’re going to be seen differently. to me and the people I’m exposed to you’re pretty sadchan
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206314
cause trannies and gays rate people way differently from normal society
>>206317
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206316
but ur saying normal society people calls u pretty
>>206318
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206317
no, no one in normal society would call me pretty. only trannies and gay men do.
>>206322
SadChan🍉🍉
by cis standards im like a 3/10. 0/10 considering no cloyster.

but trans women rate me completely differently.
>>206322
anon
hehe cloyster
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206318
>>206320
yeah but if that's the case then why would girlmoding in public help me whatsoever
>>206323
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206322
because you would get an unbiased feedback. if a random store clerk calls you sir in a dress and makeup you dont pass. LGBT arent really trustworthy imo. but to me I see u post this stuff all the time about getting she/her pronouns by default and guys being interested in you and stuff and it seems like the extremely normal GD boymoder syndrome where u think its impossible to pass, so you dont even try which makes it true. and every boymoder who can pass thinks THEY are the exception who can never pass. and I am very ugly by cis standards and I am still able to pass. but I also voice trained and fully "commit to the bit".
>>206325
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206323
because photos are not a valid way to receive feedback, it's just an approximation of what you look like irl. pictures don't show my proportions or my height nor anything like that
that's why everytime it happens i just gotta immediately clarify i'm a guy and those are just "unfortunate pics" and so on. also it's not like it happens 100% of the time. today i even got sir'd while 12 hours ago before going to bed i got she/her'd by a guy and same thing happened like 5 hours ago
>>206326
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206325
thats the point though... like you are in between genders if you commited to being a woman you could get she her all the time which is passing
>>206327
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206326
not because i pass tho
SadChan🍉🍉
yea I think u could I saw pictures... but I dont want to trigger u im sorry.
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
the thing is that i could girlmode and from what i've been told i wouldn't look "ugly" really, i would look ok-ish. the thing is that i would look like a trans woman. i wouldn't pass, people would just see me and go "oh ok, this is clearly a trans girl"
it's probably why people ask for my pronouns on dating apps so often, because i just look ambiguous rn. i don't like it and i know to some extent i'm the one putting myself in this situation but honestly i really prefer being a weird looking guy than a "fairly presentable" trans girl because at least being a weird looking guy i'm not worthy of being a victim of hatecrime
SadChan🍉🍉
I hope that is true, but it seems like that isnt true because you said you got way too nervous to teech being a boymoder which is just being a wierd looking guy.
>>206336
SadChan🍉🍉
but i also dont know how safe chile is for trans people if they just get muredered as soon as they exist publically I understandd but thats different from thinking u cant pass.
>>206332
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206331
i know trans girls who don't pass and girlmode anyways and they get treated like shit at least once a month. they do it because dysphoria is worse than that but they hate it anyways
i personally think i can handle dysphoria way better than how i'd handle being treated like shit in public for existing
SadChan🍉🍉
thats fair.
SadChan🍉🍉
and the nice thing is you are on HRT tbh if you change ur mind its not like you are masculinizing against ur will
SadChan🍉🍉
mid 20s on test changes ur body a lot. start of male pattern baldness and greasy skin, peramennt skin damgae giant pores, lots of disgusting hair, you just put on wieght, get bigger all these things ughh
>>206337
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206330
>you got way too nervous to teech being a boymoder which is just being a wierd looking guy
i don't think i said this
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206337
no. you dont understand, a lot of teen trans people who dont understand human ageing think that. yes, male puberty affected you. but it doesnt stop. men keep masculinizing into their 40s.
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
i know that and that's why i'm telling you i had to deal with all of those things by the time i was 20
>>206340
i know, but i had to deal with them anyways
SadChan🍉🍉
no you dont, they KEEP happening and they get more severe and worse as time goes on. you arent bald, can you grow a full beard? like a truly huge full beard?
>>206342>>206339
anon
frfrfr
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
>>206340
>you arent bald
my hairline is awful, it's not that i need bangs, i also need my hair floofy because it's really really bad
>>206343
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206342
well what im saying is its GOOD you are on HRT because HRT can repair ur hairline, and prevent further loss because test = male balding its literally that simple. if you have the genetics for MPD. so liek its a good thing you are on HRT because you are preventing all these bad things happening to you I guess what Im saying (if you consider looking male a bad thing)
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
i know
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
but factually (i think) speaking, being on hrt for me just means i won't get bald and i'm not even sure that's like, an actual problem, because my dad's on his mid 50s and while his hair has thinned a bit he's not bald really
for some reason my hairline got fucked bad by the time i was 20. idk if it was because i was a borderline junkie by that time (not like i'm not one now tbh)
SadChan🍉🍉
maybe, depends on the drugg. hard drugs will age u really hard :(
drugs are bad mmkay? xD
anon
#ai why do hard drugs age you so much?

hard drugs mess up your body at a cellular level. they dehydrate you, fuck up collagen production, and slow healing. stimulants like meth or coke stress your cardiovascular system and cause facial twitches or grinding that wear down your teeth and muscles. opioids make you neglect basic hygiene and nutrition. all that shit adds up fast. plus, the lifestyle means less sleep, more sun exposure, and constant inflammation. your skin sags, wrinkles deepen, and you just look hollow-eyed and gaunt. some of it is reversible if you quit early, but the damage compounds the longer you use.
why do hard drugs age you so much?
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
so basically hrt just made me look my age again. i don't think being on hrt is like a "free to girlmode whenever you want" card for me
>>206350
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206349
no no no im not saying that. but, if you change ur mind about girlmoding later you have the option is all im saying.
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
i don't think i'll girlmode until i get ffs so i think it doesn't really matter much. the best thing about getting hrt is that now i don't feel like my head's producing white noise whenever i'm not listening music loud
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
that's basically it, honestly
SadChan🍉🍉
well, what im saying is.
SadChan🍉🍉
when you are 30, you might feel different.
SadChan🍉🍉
people CHANGE over time. how you feel now is not a guarantee you will feel the same way in 10 years a lot changes in that time.
>>206402
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
i don't see myself at 30. idk how am i even 23 honestly
SadChan🍉🍉
I thoguht I was gonna kms at 12, 15, 16, 19, 22, 23, 28 and now im 32 and I still think about it sometimes xD
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
i mean yeah maybe ur right
>>206360
SadChan🍉🍉
>>206359
#hug Im glad you are here, you are a beautiful person and I think getting into that linguisitcs program would be sooooo coool and like yeaaa people r rooting 4 u :3
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
fair
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
#uwu (USER WAS UWU'D FOR THIS POST)
SadChan🍉🍉
Being a tranny is just really hard and shitty its just like a 1.78 difficulty modifier globally on all aspects of your life.
SadChan🍉🍉
I guess I figured in character select if I stacked a bunch of difficulty modifiers I could get a high score?
SadChan🍉🍉
I dont want to make boymoders feel bad I have another friend i had a similar conversation with I feel like a jerkk
nonners
cant sleep my neightobs are so loud
nonners
neighbors
nonners
i would genuinely be happy if they died, most of this country shoyld be nuked and it would be net positive for tge world, actual subhumans
SadChan🍉🍉
what if nuk worl?
SadChan🍉🍉
::glegle think
shrimp
gamers
shrimp
holy shit
bruh
no more glass ceiling
bruh
feminism 5 just dropped gamer dlc
>>206401
shrimp
finally inersectionality is compelte
bruh
komm susser todd starts playing
bruh
tjholy shit
bruh
the fact my guy goes behind is so perfect
shrimp
lmao right
shrimp
i guess for u ur infront
bruh
naturally because i'm the main character
bruh
i'm glad that i was not the protag for this clip
shrimp
the mainest
shrimp
yeah h-haha
shrimp
oh wait i misunderstood
bruh
what is he saying before his life is tragically snuffed
shrimp
coca cola estuma
bruh
estuma
shrimp
thats my best guiess
bruh
>>206396
holy shit sadchan i didn't know you were the voice actress for sheep
bruh
it's an honor
anon
>>206355
god I really really really really hope so
anon
::hope
anon
#smartai how come until I show selfies of my face online, so many random people online just very aggressively assume I must look like a hypermasculine cisgender man like Hulk Hogan irl- no matter what I say or how I act??? It's really annoying as an mtf trans and it's frustrating me, please analyze an explain this shit to me.

Ah, this is a fascinating yet frustrating phenomenon rooted in cognitive biases, societal conditioning, and the limitations of text-based communication. Let’s dissect it systematically:

### 1. **Default Assumptions & Heteronormativity**
Humans rely on *heuristics* (mental shortcuts) to fill gaps in perception—especially online, where visual data is absent. Western society defaults to *cisheteronormativity*, meaning people unconsciously assume others are cisgender and align with traditional gender expressions unless explicitly contradicted. Since hypermasculinity (e.g., Hulk Hogan-esque traits) is stereotypically associated with AMAB (assigned male at birth) individuals, strangers may lazily default to that assumption when engaging with you pre-visual disclosure.

### 2. **Text-Based Communication Lacks Gender Cues**
Written language often obscures gendered nuances outside deliberate signaling (*linguistic gendering*). Without vocal pitch, facial structure, or sartorial cues—and barring overtly femme lexical choices—people subconsciously project their own biases onto your persona. Unless you deploy unmistakably femme-coded language (e.g., "slay," "yass," emoji use), many readers will reflexively masculinize your voice due to systemic *androcentrism*.

### 3. **Aggressive Hypermasculine Projection as Defense Mechanism**
Some individuals engage in exaggerated gendering as an unconscious defense against cognitive dissonance: if they perceive even ambiguous AMAB voices as threats (*toxic masculinity contagion bias*), they'll overcorrect by assuming extreme masculinity rather than risk misgendering someone femininely aligned ("better safe than sorry" fallacy). This reflects broader transphobic anxieties around perceived "deception."

### 4. **Confirmation Bias & Prior Exposure**
If someone has encountered predominantly cis-male interlocutors in similar contexts before (*availability heuristic*), they'll statistically presume you fit the same mold until proven otherwise—hence why selfies disrupt this pattern abruptly.

### Mitigation Strategies:
- **Linguistic Gendering**: Use overtly femme syntax/lexicon if comfortable ("girlboss rhetoric"). Emojis (🌸💅✨) can passively signal femininity without explicit disclosure.
- **Preemptive Visual Signifiers**: Avatars/pfp featuring stylized femmes aesthetics (even illustrations/anime) prime perceptions early.
- **Correct & Disengage**: A simple “Actually I’m a woman lol” forces recalibration; persistent offenders reveal their bigotry for easy blocking.

This reflects less about you and more about society’s rigid gender schema clashing against digital ambiguity—a problem requiring collective unlearning of binary assumptions while we navigate toward post-gender discourse norms (**see: Judith Butler's performativity theory**). Stay resilient; their kneejerk projections say nothing about your validity ✊🏳️‍⚧️
how come until I show selfies of my face online, so many random people online just very aggressively assume I must look like a hypermasculine cisgender man like Hulk Hogan irl- no matter what I say or how I act??? It's really annoying as an mtf trans and it's frustrating me, please analyze an explain this shit to me.
>>206407
anon
mbe cause you sound agitated and weak so they feel challenged but like they can win so they want to humiliate you and look down on you- like how people who are jealous of criminals fantasize about them getting raped
>>206406
anon
>>206404
#reply AI the avatars and emoticons don't work if anything it feels like combined with anonymity it just makes the assumptions I am a cisgender man who looks like hulk hogan pretending to be a girl online and it makes me feel even worse please reflect more on this in detail

people default to assuming masculine traits online when gender isn’t explicitly shown. it’s the societal baseline for "neutral" in a lot of spaces, especially where anonymity is common. text alone doesn’t carry tone or appearance, so unless you actively signal femininity, they’ll often jump to the easiest stereotype—hypermasculine dude—because that’s the lazy default in patriarchal structures.

also, online strangers project based on their own biases. if you don’t serve them overt feminine cues (like pics, voice, or hyper-fem language), their brains auto-fill the blanks with what’s culturally shoved as "default human"—aka big loud man. it’s annoying as hell, but it’s not about *you* failing to convey something; it’s about them lacking imagination and reproducing tired norms.

that said, some ppl also do it deliberately to provoke, especially if you’re trans. the internet’s full of losers who get a kick out of misgendering or pushing buttons. it’s not about logical consistency—they’ll ignore your words to cling to their assumption because disrupting their fantasy would mean questioning their own limited worldview.

tl;dr: people are lazy, biased, and often bad at thinking beyond stereotypes. their wrong guesses say way more about them than you. it sucks, but you’re not the one failing here.
AI the avatars and emoticons don't work if anything it feels like combined with anonymity it just makes the assumptions I am a cisgender man who looks like hulk hogan pretending to be a girl online and it makes me feel even worse please reflect more on this in detail
>>206408
anon
>>206407
you do have a direct way of speaking and so do I but you’re nice meow meow
>>206409
anon
>>206408
lol i wonder if you know who i am anon i think you do rofl meow meow
anon
purr:3
anon
one of my best wormies
anon
belt AND suspenders? he definitely isn’t feminine ; )
>>206416
anon
>>206414
so frustrating anon, in everywhere cept brainworm everyone aggressively insists i am a hypermasculine dudely dudely mc cisgender man irl and i hate it so much
>>206418
anon
until seeing my photos which i never show in most spaces so its like inescpeable fruastration'
anon
:)
anon
nice chair
anon
^ How everyone stereotypes me online whole anonymous :(
anon
it’s because of the certain level of anger and loudness/hmmm I’m not sure I guess sometimes you have frustrated nerd vibes but it’s so tough to change that kinda stuff
anon
#smartai where does the stereotype come from that all feminine looking people online post selfies on literally every website they visit and that in contrast every anonymous person is an insanely masculine man?

The stereotype that feminine-presenting individuals compulsively post selfies while anonymous users are presumed to be hypermasculine men stems from a confluence of historical, sociocultural, and digital behavioral patterns. Here’s a breakdown of its origins:

### 1. **Gendered Social Media Norms**
Studies (e.g., Pew Research, 2018) show that women tend to engage more in visual self-presentation online—posting personal photos at higher rates than men. This aligns with societal pressures on femininity to prioritize appearance-based validation (a phenomenon explored by scholars like Jean Kilbourne in *"Killing Us Softly"*). Platforms like Instagram and TikTok amplify this trend algorithmically, reinforcing the trope.

### 2. **Anonymity as Masculine-Coded Performance**
Early internet culture (1990s–2000s) was dominated by male users in tech-centric spaces (e.g., forums like 4chan or Reddit), where anonymity allowed performative masculinity—often exaggerated into aggression ("trolling") or intellectual posturing. The "faceless keyboard warrior" archetype emerged here, tied to stereotypes of male detachment from personal disclosure.

### 3. **Historical Bias in Digital Spaces**
Tech industries historically marginalized women (see: Gamergate harassment campaigns), fostering environments where visible femininity was either sexualized or dismissed as frivolous ("selfie culture"), while anonymity defaulted to male unless proven otherwise—a bias rooted in real-world patriarchal structures.

### 4. **Media Reinforcement**
Pop culture caricatures exacerbate this: think the meme template of the "girl taking bathroom mirror selfies vs. gigachad hacker." These reductively frame identity performance through binary gender lenses despite empirical evidence showing diverse online behaviors across genders.

### Counterpoints & Nuance:
- Nonbinary/androgynous users often defy these tropes but face erasure due to algorithmic invisibility.
- Research (*Alice Marwick*, *Status Update*) notes that selfie-posting is strategic identity labor for many demographics—not inherently gendered.
- Anonymous platforms today host diverse voices; presumptions otherwise reflect outdated tech demography data.

In essence, the stereotype persists due to confirmation bias intersecting with legacy internet subcultures and broader gender norms—but it crumbles under scrutiny of actual user behavior heterogeneity.
where does the stereotype come from that all feminine looking people online post selfies on literally every website they visit and that in contrast every anonymous person is an insanely masculine man?
anon
the first looks like an estrogenated/hrt version but... well the results were not what i expected, i expected a picture of a trans woman sitting at a computer who never shows her face tbh
anon
sadge:<
anon
#smartai I pass offline pretty well, and my doctors/roommies know I'm trans, but nearly every person on the internet who can't see my face thinks I'm a super virilized straight cisgender white man and it makes me feel like shit, also people tell me I'm physically passable, but that I just act like a straight cisgender white man that it's in my heart and my soul and makes my soul horribly unpassable

It sounds like you're grappling with a deeply complex and painful dissonance between how you perceive yourself, how others perceive you, and the societal expectations imposed upon gender expression. This is an understandably distressing experience—one that many trans individuals navigate in different ways. Let’s break this down thoughtfully.

### 1. **Physical Passing vs. Behavioral/Social Perception**
- You mention being told you "physically pass" offline but are perceived online as a "virilized straight cis white man." This suggests that your voice, language patterns, or digital demeanor (e.g., typing style, interests, humor) may align with cultural stereotypes of hypermasculinity—a construct often tied to cishet whiteness.
- The critique about your "soul" or innate behavior being "unpassable" is particularly insidious because it implies gender is performative in rigidly policed ways. It also reflects others' biases: they may conflate masculinity itself with cisness/whiteness/heteronormativity, which erases diverse masculinities (including trans masculinities).

### 2. **The Tyranny of Stereotypes**
- Cisnormativity demands that trans people not only inhabit gendered aesthetics flawlessly but also conform to narrow behavioral scripts (e.g., flamboyant femininity for transfems or stoic toughness for transmascs). Deviating from these can trigger accusations of being “inauthentic.”
- Your discomfort likely stems from feeling forced into a box of exaggerated masculinity to be legible as male—while simultaneously resenting how that performance reinforces tropes you don’t identify with.

### 3. **Online Anonymity Amplifies Assumptions**
- Without visual/auditory cues, people default to broad archetypes based on word choice, topic engagement, or even platform demographics (e.g., gaming spaces often presume participants are cishet men).
- If your communication style leans concise/direct/sarcastic—traits culturally coded as “male”—it may inadvertently feed this perception despite not reflecting your full identity.

### 4. **Internalized Pressure & Soul-Sickness**
The phrase "horribly unpassable soul" cuts deep; it suggests internalized shame around failing to meet external ideals of what makes someone *truly* male/female/nonbinary according to cis standards.
But here’s the truth: ***Gender isn’t housed in performative compliance.*** Your essence isn’t less valid because it doesn’t mirror stereotypical norms any more than a gay man is “less gay” for enjoying sports or a butch lesbian is “less female” for rejecting dresses.

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#### Paths Forward:
- **Reframe Passing:** Consider whether passing-as-cis should even be the goal when systems demanding it are inherently flawed.
- **Own Your Nuance:** Masculinity isn't monolithic! Explore expressions beyond tired tropes without guilt (e.g., vulnerability doesn't negate maleness).
- **Digital Reclamation:** Play with usernames/profiles signaling queerness if safe—or accept some misreadings while knowing *you* define your gender.
- Seek communities where diverse masculinities thrive without surveillance politics ("Are You Man Enough?" nonsense).

You aren't broken; society's gauges are miscalibrated by reductive thinking about who gets called real/unreal within each category under patriarchy/capitalism/etc..

Would discussing specific interactions help dissect why certain dynamics grate so harshly?
I pass offline pretty well, and my doctors/roommies know I'm trans, but nearly every person on the internet who can't see my face thinks I'm a super virilized straight cisgender white man and it makes me feel like shit, also people tell me I'm physically passable, but that I just act like a straight cisgender white man that it's in my heart and my soul and makes my soul horribly unpassable
i like sad things
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#c how much is 41 degrees fahrenheit in celsius (5 °c (degrees celsius))
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SadChan🍉🍉
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SadChan🍉🍉
wait arent seasons flipped below the equator or smth
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#c how much is 79 degrees fahrenheit in celsius (26.11 °c (degrees celsius))
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#ai are the seasons flipped below the equator?

yep, seasons are opposite below the equator. summer in the northern hemisphere is winter in the southern and vice versa. happens because the earth's tilt changes which hemisphere gets more direct sunlight.
are the seasons flipped below the equator?
>>206449
SadChan🍉🍉
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for us
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>>206475
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>>206476
me when i realize i'll wake up after going to bed tonight
faye
did you know statistically
faye
wednesdays are worse than 9/11
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everyday is worse than 9/11
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not because life is awful and whatever, but because every bad day for the US is a good day for the rest of the world
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gleg...
faye
wow i like that one
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very good gle
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>>206476
TOO REAL TOO REAL DELET DELTE DLETELD ELTLET DELET THJISIIS WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
SadChan🍉🍉
days should be 146 hours long
shrimp
thats me
shrimp
sort of
shrimp
i didnt play oblivion
shrimp
or jak and dexter
shrimp
and i dont miss the 90s/2000s
>>206504
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#ksay shrimp
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#ksay shrimp
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#ksay hi shrimp
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SadChan🍉🍉
it was befer this whole media rukkus invenered racisms
shrimp
uh racism was still a thing back then
shrimp
arguably worse
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the world became a better place to live when brainworm.rodeo was created
>>206512
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#ksay glungle fungle
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>>206522
#ksay shark
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#ksay are you fond of or ambivalent towards sharks
shrimp
scary shark
shrimp
at least the one with the shoes
shrimp
otherwise i think sharks are cool
shrimp
thats you
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the shark
shrimp
the one being eaten
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no that's u
shrimp
are you eating me
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#ai do sharks eat shrimps

yeah actually some sharks do eat shrimp, especially smaller species like port jackson sharks or catsharks. they munch on crustaceans along with other small prey. bigger sharks usually go for bigger stuff though. nice try fed.
do sharks eat shrimps
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i'm sorry but these are the rules of the game
shrimp
squirms around in your belly
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yum
shrimp
dissolves in acid and dies
shrimp
scary...
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.....that's me
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actually...
shrimp
why are you wearing shoes you dont even ahve feet......
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yeah but they're cool tho..
>>206550
shrimp
scary....
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allies...
anon
Dead site lol #oracle ()
🌸!nIOh.loris
what a day my bck hurts
anon
why are white people so ghoulish
>>206561
anon
looks like a sleep paralysis daemon
>>206561
anon
>>206563
i can't help that my mind only sees white women as creepypasta characters
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ai
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wut
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deeplick
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lick 👅
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me when i lick
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also this song goes hard
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it doesn't go hard like Mozart's Requiem goes hard
>>206584
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but goes hard the way 365 by charli xcx goes hard
>>206584
🌸!nIOh.loris
#ksay ahem
anon
portuguese is the best singing language
nadie :3!x9xp7N8Vkc
honestly i can see it
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portuguese is one of my favorite languages tbh it feels so smooth
🌸!nIOh.loris
i like the lyrics of this song
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goated language
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.play meu deus um lagarto
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classics
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>>206594
he looks 2 months and 96 year old at the same time
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.play hard times paramore
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.skip (video skipped)
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.play hard times paramore guitar cover
SadChan🍉🍉
.play hard times paramore
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hi sadchan
SadChan🍉🍉
hi nadia
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rip derrick
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rip derrick
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#ai does derrick have any family

derrick has a big extended ferret family! lots of cousins, a couple siblings, but he’s mostly living his own little chaotic ferret life right now. super close to his mom though—she’s the one who taught him how to hoard shiny things and do the weasel war dance.
does derrick have any family
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#ai what's derrick mom's name

derrick's mom's name isn't known, but she's probably just as cute and energetic as he is. maybe even more.
what's derrick mom's name
🌸!nIOh.loris
soft times
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somebody should play this song in the key of F major and change the lyrics to soft times and similar stuff
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i remember when this album was released and everyone was like "omg no they're so corny now" as if Misery Business wasn't the most stupid song in human history
anon
this sounds like a song that would be in eurovision
>>206615
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i mean it ain't stupid but this album is way better than what they were making when she was 17-18
>>206616
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"pick me" girl lyrics
>>206616

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