okay ive got it

ive created a brilliant plan

>>548061
i've been considering getting like a carabiner and i also have been considering something like a purse or idk

twinkanonnn will u buy me a cute purse??????

>>548092
im a boymoder fashion is not a concern to me if i wanted to look good i'd be rethinking my life choices

what do you mean

boys don't have carabiners?

did she see my pics or is she talking about like the fashion choices >>548107

>>548113
#edit censor this

no nsfw twinkanon!!!!!! >:(

>>548109
aww thank you. im very good at boymoding though. anything that makes me feel horrible i just do that and usually it helps me pass as a boy better. i'd never send someone a boymode pic tho lol

#c 24.08 USD to CAD (c$33.00 (canadian dollars))

ahh i see

>>548146
the concern of a purse is that i wouldn't be able to take it everywhere which would defeat the point

>>548150
alright mr. tra (twinks rights activist)

my dad said he was a MGTOW and i was like "i dont think you know the connotation of that phrase" and i read him the first line on wikipedia and he was like "oh shit LOL oops"

>>548157
>0% divorced

>>548162
to be clear i mean "greater than 0"

i think my dad is probably just like not very interested in romance

man going their own way

>>548183
i like. do not want this at all?

i was reading an interesting book last night actually

it's a woman talking about like what it's like being pregnant in the digital age

and it's a bit cringe but i was deriving a lot of value from it.

the most remarkable part was when she said "i don't like thinking about my body because it leads me too quickly to realizing im like a mass of tendons and muscles [etc.] very precariously linked to my brain"

>>548196
because like its just so crazy that cis people only have to think about their physical vessel on occasion. like they can just live life and not constantly have their body looming over them. it like blew my mind honestly

>>548212
you also let smaller girls top you i believe.

>>548220
yup everyone likes me instead. bad day for rose orlando.

>>548228
its okay rose orlando everyone likes you here

including me:)

>>548233
::lets all love lain

>>548217
y'know honestly my controversial take is that if cis people don't feel agender then they're not.

>>548240
i do actually read your dms

>>548243
i just only respond infrequently because im a bad person. sorry about that i really wish i wasnt like this. it infuriates most of the people i know.

>>548244
nah political agender is whatever. i meant moreso that even if someone doesn't have a strong sense of gender, if they don't really have a sense of absence of gender then they're not agender.

>>548252
this is in the sense that many cis people literally just never think about gender? like if u ask a cis woman "whats it mean to you to be a woman" they'll either say "i dont know" or "i got XX chromosomes lol". and then they conform to the social role of female regardless

>>548255
agender requires more knowledge than this

there's literally a hermeneutical gap in cis people's understanding of gender. it doesn't occur to them that the social aspect of gender is socially constructed, so when they don't feel gendered, it's not necessarily because they're agender, it's just that they exist in a world where there's not a separate sensation of gender.

>>548265
this is also why i believe u need dysphoria to be trans btw. not in like the sense of like u need to feel a specific way about your body or whatever

>>548274
you mean like femboys? lol

>>548274
i think that this is a contradiction of terms in my sense of dysphoria. i think that if you're transitioning you literally have like a separate sense of how you want your gender to be and its different from your current one

>>548304
yeah but it's not just a different image of how you want to be, it's a different image of how you want to be in relation to your gender. if a guy is like "im still male but i wanna look like a girl" then they don't have like an incongruity of *gender* just of appearance.

>>548308
if they are like "i feel like a girl" then even if there's no negative experience to it i think it's still dysphoria (in the sense of a feeling of incongruity)

>>548317
and in this case i think its just a poor use of terminology that it sounds negative

effortposting in livechat is so hard

>>548326
what i was saying above though is that i just dont think this exists. like if you don't feel like you're a different gender you're not trans. and if you do that's dysphoria.

>>548370
that's not what i said. crossdressers don't feel like the other gender.

>>548380
its a very simple definition. if you feel like the other gender thats like dysphoria.

i understand there's like a separate experience of like disgust with one's body or self but this is overlapping terms lol

>>548389
if u look at the dsm they have like "incongruence between sex characteristics" and also like "desire to be of the other gender" and "a conviction that you are of the other gender" etc. i think these are pretty accurate

>>548404
the way its used a lot of the time is stupid im just saying the literal face value definition (interpreted charitably--not interpreted as a retard psych would) is pretty good